An individual governed by the sum of his mental, emotional and behavioral memories cannot be autonomous. These memories make him think, feel and act.
Real autonomy is born when the individual connected to his etheric Double decides to be free and to manifest his autonomy at the three levels of his being (Cf. "The destruction of the astral - birth of the real Self" and "Le Souffle de l'Homme nouveau").
It is a work of constant disidentification of one's unconscious in order to access the manifestation of one's conscious Identity.
To reach one's true autonomy requires taking full responsibility for one's thoughts, emotions and actions in relation to one's true Identity free of memories. As soon as this responsibility diminishes, the wave of the unconscious takes over, leads and acts through the individual.
Helping someone when it is through the difficult experience that he can develop his potential, deprives him of his autonomy and makes him dependent on oneself. On the other hand, helping a person because he or she absolutely needs this help to move forward, will be able to launch him or her on the road to autonomy...
Real vision and balance